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High-risk Pregnancies

Why Dads Are a Crucial Part of the Support

By Teri Brown

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At Home
One of the many things women worry about is the state of their home. To be at home and not able to help can be very distressing. A helping husband can go a long way in minimizing this stress.

"Dads can help out more at home so the pregnant patient can get more rest," says Dr. King. "This is especially important if there are other children at home. The fastest way that a high-risk pregnancy can become more complicated is if the patient doesn't get enough rest."

One idea is to hire a housekeeper to come in and clean as often as needed. If that's out of the question, ask to see if any of your friends or family would be willing to lend a helping hand.

Emotional Support
The stress of a high-risk pregnancy can interfere with quality rest. To be an emotional support, dads should take into account the mom-to-be's situation and then plan accordingly to relieve her stress.

Dr. King suggests the couple arrange to have family, friends, church members, neighbors, etc., come by on a daily basis just to spend some time with the mom-to-be. Another idea is to make it easy for her to listen to her favorite CDs and/or watch movies.

"Encourage her to develop a hobby that she can do while on bed rest such as cross stitch, knitting or scrapbooking," says Dr. King. "You can also have a laptop set up so that she can keep in contact with friends through e-mail."

Decreasing the Stress Level
Dr. Kathleen Hall, a stress expert and founder of the Stress Institute (www.stressinstitute.com), believes the first thing to realize about a high-risk pregnancy is it's one of the most stressful times in you life as a couple.


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High-risk Pregnancies by Kelly on 08/07/2009 04:08AM

I have a question, I am a 38 year old woman and I would like to get pregnant within the next 4 months-I have been on medications for quite awhile-clonazepam-for 10 years, tylenol with codeine for 8 years and ephedrine for 7 years-if I get pregnant by accident- will I carry a baby with major birth defects?

High-risk Pregnancies by Anonymous on 07/14/2009 06:15PM

i had 3 miscarriages and have not had trouble getting pregnant. my first miscarriage was painful because i was 12 weeks and the fetus had no heart beat that was painful for me. my second and third pregnacies were 7 weeks. i am now pregnant and i thank god that everything is going good i am 13 weeks and i have heard my babys heart beat twice. i thank god every day for giving me another chance to be pregnant and for letting me get to where im at now. i also believe i have a guarden angel who is my dad watching over me. i lost him three months ago its been so hard.

High-risk Pregnancies by Maria from LA, California on 06/21/2009 08:27PM

Hello ladies I had three miscarriages and believe me My husband and I have struggled for quite sometime to get pregnant again.. The most painful miscarriage was 3 years ago when I was 20 weeks.. I had to bury my son and previous to that I was driving when I had it.. It did take me a long time to survive from this trauma... That same day a friend went into labor and her baby lived and mine died.. Everytime I would see her daughter my heart used to shatter now I have learned to surrender those negative emotions to God. I have learned to cope and pray.. Last year I had another miscarriage I was 2 months.. Now I am pregnant and I am really excited, nervous and happy.. I am very thankful everyday that God has blessed my family and me one more time.. Believe me the fear is in the back of my mind.. But luckliy I am seeing my Ob every 2 weeks and checks my baby and cervix everytime.. So far so Good.. I just pray that women do not go through what I went through... Believe me it has been a traumatic roller coaster ride.. But I know that God will help along the way!!!! Thank you ladies for giving me a chance to take this load of fear out of my chest!!! Thanks Maria from LA, California

High-risk Pregnancies by Anonymous on 06/11/2009 05:07PM

i had lost a son last year in october that was 2 pounds it was a really bad timing for me for a couple of months but god really looked out for me and gave another son now i am 15 weeks preganet im really happy i would love to have alot of support from anyone to help this one be it for me and pray im so scared that something might happened but im not gonna worry im gonna keep praying that god take care of me and my kids and watch over this one in my belly.

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