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Play the Cleaning Game

Sweep Your Child off the Couch

By Laura Cone

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When cleaning or playing the game of musical chores, try to play music with an upbeat tempo, says Hill."You will also find if you keep an upbeat tempo of music while you are cleaning they don't stop as often," she says.

Organize to Prevent Clutter
Hill says it's important for parents of young children to make it easy for their children to clean up. "From raising two children and being the oldest of six children, the easiest way to get kids to help is not make a mess in the first place," she says. "Rule No. 1 is if you don't put it on the floor, you never have to pick it up. To that end, you must make it easy for them. A child is not going to want to put their clothes on a hanger or put things away if it's difficult."

Hill suggests putting hooks on walls and using clear containers with no lids so your children can see what objects should go in a certain box. She says not to expect too much of your child or create a complicated organization system. "The idea is don't ever let it get so far behind that it's a gigantic chore to clean it up," she says.

Paying for Chores
Hill says she paid her children an allowance for doing extra chores as they became older.

By definition, chores are not something most people look forward to doing. But if children can learn to associate good feelings with helping out, they may be more inclined to clean as stress relief or to help the family as they grow up. "It's a great lesson to learn, that if you put your mind to it, you get it done and move to the next thing," Hill says. "There are some things in life that you have to do whether or not they are fun to do."


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